Teen parents aren't sluts, they're just stupid, and while I'm at it, if you had a kid at 18+ you are not a teen parent! You are legally an adult. Take a look at these [link][link][link][link][link]
They had sex without using a form of birth control (sorry teens, but the pull out method doesn't work), or if they did, they didn't have an abortion or put in up for adoption. Having sex doesn't make you a slut, but remember, penis-vaginal makes pregnancy happen, so if your going to have sex, use birth control please. And yes I'm talking about teen boys / teen dads too, they're just as stupid as the girl was / is.
And teens, raising a kid isn't like raising a puppy on the Nintendogs games, infants, toddlers and kids are a lot of work. And sorry, but teens aren't ready to be having kids, they just need to stay in school, and have fun with their limited time of not being an adult. Why throw your life away at such a young age? Just because you're mature enough to have sex, doesn't mean your mature enough to have kids or raise them.
And yes, been a teen and having sex without protection is stupid, and it's also stupid to not have an abortion, I don't care what those stupid pro-lifers say, they can go fuck themselves, if they care so much why don't they tell women that they'll raise the kid if she's wants an abortion? What's worse, being ridiculed by pro-lifers but still being able to finish school, maybe go to collage, get a job, and when you're ready, have the kids your ready to have and want or getting ass-pats by pro-lifers, and throwing your life and future out the window?
Or do what some high school girl did and after giving birth, treat the baby like trash by throwing it into the trash can. Then get charged with child abuse later.
One act of stupidity does not make a person stupid. What matters is what happens after the act. Stupidity is determined by one's ability to learn from their mistakes and to take action to deal with the consequences of their mistake. So long as they put lots of though into the whole abortion/keeping the child thing then no they are not stupid.
Personally I support abortion 100% so long as the mother gave lots of thought to it, AND does it before week 20. That's about it. It takes only one act of sexual intercourse to make a baby. Its either a stroke of luck or a stroke of misfortune. Even so some of these teens are forced to keep the child by overbearing families that either live in an area that you either can't get abortions or need parental permission, or are scared to get one out of fear of being rejected by those closest to them. Either way it should be up to the teen mother to determine, given her current situation, if she should keep or get rid of the child. And if its a teen I pray to god they get an
If they aren't ready to have kids, then they aren't ready to RISK kids, which means they should stop being stupid sluts, and NOT have sex until they're an adult.
Boys can't get pregnant. If they could, I would feel the same thing about them. The issue is biologically divided by gender, that does NOT mean my feelings or motives for those feelings on the matter are.
Yes, and when a man is allowed to weigh in on the issue of his child, then he should have to shoulder his fair share of the responsibility (society already expects his wallet to). Either the man is involved and shoulders the responsibility as well as the decision process, or he is inconsequential, and as such should NOT have to bear some partial responsibility. You can't have it both ways.
Only one can get her pregnant, at a time. Not to mention that irresponsible sex has more consequences than just pregnancy. Sure, she can only get knocked up once from those guys, but that one trollup can infect all nine with a disease.
And those men could infect plenty of women with disease too. And maybe men would get custody of their children if they stop the whole "Preventing a pregnancy is 100% the woman's responsibility."
Safe sex prevents disease, abstinence even more. If women have ALL the say after she's pregnant, then why should men share ANY of the responsibility? Either share the say, or shut the fuck up and take all the responsibility. You can't have both.
And if every one went abstinent, a lot of other people would be bitching 24/7. I never said it men don't have a say in abortion, because they do. And women have to be responsible for everything, pregnancy and STD's, men get off scot-free.
Personally I support abortion 100% so long as the mother gave lots of thought to it, AND does it before week 20. That's about it. It takes only one act of sexual intercourse to make a baby. Its either a stroke of luck or a stroke of misfortune. Even so some of these teens are forced to keep the child by overbearing families that either live in an area that you either can't get abortions or need parental permission, or are scared to get one out of fear of being rejected by those closest to them. Either way it should be up to the teen mother to determine, given her current situation, if she should keep or get rid of the child. And if its a teen I pray to god they get an
Boys can't get pregnant. If they could, I would feel the same thing about them. The issue is biologically divided by gender, that does NOT mean my feelings or motives for those feelings on the matter are.
Only one can get her pregnant, at a time. Not to mention that irresponsible sex has more consequences than just pregnancy. Sure, she can only get knocked up once from those guys, but that one trollup can infect all nine with a disease.
If women have ALL the say after she's pregnant, then why should men share ANY of the responsibility? Either share the say, or shut the fuck up and take all the responsibility. You can't have both.