Y'know technically a foetus isn't alive.
Life is determined by EEG. Legally, medically and scientifically if you have no EEG you are dead/not alive regardless of whether or not your heart is beating. This means you are brain-dead, and a person who is brain-dead has absolutely no brain activity and thus does not respond to pain and has no cranial nerve reflexes.
Foetuses have no EEG. This means that, by definition, they are not alive. They cannot think, they cannot feel pain and by legal, scientific and medical terms abortion is therefore not murder. Murder is when you kill a living being and since foetuses aren't alive (no brain activity) they cannot be murdered, only disposed of.
((If I'm correct, brain activity only occurs late in the pregnancy so having an abortion within the first two trimesters is fine. Its entering the final months of pregnancy (the months where the child MIGHT survive if born prematurely) when issues start to arrive because it is around that period where brain activity starts (otherwise they would not survive a premature birth) because that is when a foetus truly becomes 'alive'.))
A father should have a say. A guy who spunks inside a woman shouldn't.
If a man wants to keep his unborn child, he needs to show that he's capable of handling the weight of another human life.
I think men (and other people in the woman's life) should be allowed to have their say, but the final decision is the woman's. They can voice their opinion and advice about whether or not to abort but they should not be allowed to make the final decision about it, because that should be the pregnant woman's choice at the end of the day and no one else's.
(Similarly doctors can advise the woman but in my opinion the be all and end all is that the pregnant woman should be the one who decides whether to abort or not. Its wrong not to allow a woman to abort a baby she does not want for whatever reason. Just the same it is wrong to force a woman to abort a baby she does want.)