Stamp Docotrs, abortions or sterilization

It's bullshit that men 18+ can go get sterilized no problem, but God forbid a woman get sterilized! Women know if they want or don't want kids, they aren't stupid. I'm starting to think this is one of the (many) last ways society can try to control women! Not all women want kids, not all women need kids, and hell, some women are / would be piss poor parents and should be sterilized for that reason alone

I also don't understand why society treats women like indecisive and whimsical little girls, our entire self worth is about procreation. That's all we're good for, apparently, if we remove this ability, we're no longer human. I know I want kids someday (in the future) but I can absolutely understand how a woman would be sure she doesn't want them ever. I don't know why it's so hard to understand that some women truly don't want children.

And if she (possibly) regrets it there is always 1. Adoption / family adoption 2. Have the sterilization reversed and have your own kids 3. Hire a surrogate mother. Even though the woman is sterilized, the ovaries still make eggs.