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Stamp: Anti 'he likes you' by Riza-Izumi Stamp: Anti 'he likes you' by Riza-Izumi
I'm so sick of people saying, "He likes you." as an excuse for boys bullying girls :| It is NOT a fucking excuse, and it needs to fucking STOP. Any time a girl gets bullied by a boy there is always some sort of excuse for him. It's bullshit.

I was tortchered and tormented all through elementary and middle school by boys, and all the teachers and my family said was, "He likes you." Yes, because treating someome like shit means they like you and that you will or should like them back :| All it did was make me hate them.

Insted of telling girls that they need to 'sit in a different seat' to be away from the boy bully, how about we stop the boy from bullying. We need to target the culprit not the victim.

P.S. I know that girls bully and that boys get bullied. But you never hear, "She likes you."
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FlyingFreedom13 Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
My own mother has said that to me, and in my head, I'm thinking: The boy fucking hates me! This moron insults me daily and doesn't leave me alone! How the hell is that a sign that the moron LIKES me? I actually had a guy friend of mine crushing on me (we were literally crushing on each other), and he was a human being with a brain!
IcestormTheGlaceon Featured By Owner Edited Sep 3, 2014  New member Student Digital Artist
There are definitely ways you can tell. This one kid bullied me and liked me, you can tell because one kid told me that the bully kid liked me and the bully kid blushed. However, straight up bullying is NOT a boy liking a girl. 
LuvOshawott Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
VenomoftheFrog Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2014
No one ever said it was an excuse, they say it's an explanation of why they do it.

And actually, ever heard of 'Hey Arnold!' The bully was a female who actually liked Arnold. I have heard plenty of people say 'She likes you.'
Riza-Izumi Featured By Owner Sep 5, 2014
I've heard of the show, but I never really got into it, so I never saw that episode. Either way, bullying is not a sign of 'love'. It's abuse, only instead of an adult doing it to a kid, or to another adult, it's a kid doing it to another kid.
VenomoftheFrog Featured By Owner Sep 5, 2014
Oh, I never watched a single episode, I just heard that from a fan. And, yes, bullying is abuse, just in my opinion, not as significant as such things as domestic abuse.
FemaleJester1212 Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2014  Student
I get tired of hearing "OHHHHHH HE LIEKS U!!!!!!!!!1" after I tell someone about what a guy did to me that was irritating and that I wanted him to stop. :roll:

I can't help but think that people say this just to get out of facing the guy themselves and telling him to knock it off. -_________-

Thanks for making the stamp. :)
pastelsandbones Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh my gosh this happened to me in middle school :/ my mom excused his behavior because she thought he liked me
randomsnailfactor Featured By Owner Jul 8, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
i don't even know how this came to be

just around a month ago i was having all my property destroyed by this guy and he'd harass me daily.. i'd tell the counselors about it and my teachers and they'd all respond "he likes you."

you're a counselor give me some actual help
ttruths Featured By Owner Jun 27, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
in elementary school, i yelled " OPEN THE DOOR YOU MAGGOT! " and they thought i said something else.
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